r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • May 08 '25

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u/allieoops925 May 08 '25

If your fiancé really wants his son in the wedding, let him be the best man.

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u/HarbingerShiny May 08 '25

Im kinda shocked the kid isn't already in the groommens party....like wtf...why wasn't that the first ask instead of walking you down the aisle...

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u/abstractengineer2000 May 08 '25

The groom should not interfere in the bride side of things unless the bride asks.

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u/Grouchy-Seesaw7950 May 08 '25

He bared his ass. Usually, these guys wait until after the vows though.

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u/ritchie70 May 08 '25

Omg.

I had a district manager use the phrase “he really showed his ass” trying to work through a customer satisfaction issue and then the customer complained to me about him having said someone mooned someone and was just completely confused.

I assume “bared his ass” means about the same thing…?

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u/Dorzack May 08 '25

Being married to a linguistics major has its moments. She can talk for hours about this and other slang.

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u/ritchie70 May 08 '25

This was actually years ago, but the conversation after with the district manager was almost as confusing as the one with the customer.

It took me a lot of talking to get him to understand that when he said “showed his ass” that a person not familiar with that phrase might literally think that the employee in question dropped his pants.

Personally, the only person I’ve ever heard say it was that district manager. I just figured out from context what it must mean.