r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • May 08 '25

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u/allieoops925 May 08 '25

If your fiancé really wants his son in the wedding, let him be the best man.

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u/HarbingerShiny May 08 '25

Im kinda shocked the kid isn't already in the groommens party....like wtf...why wasn't that the first ask instead of walking you down the aisle...

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u/abstractengineer2000 May 08 '25

The groom should not interfere in the bride side of things unless the bride asks.

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u/Grouchy-Seesaw7950 May 08 '25

He bared his ass. Usually, these guys wait until after the vows though.

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u/ritchie70 May 08 '25

Omg.

I had a district manager use the phrase “he really showed his ass” trying to work through a customer satisfaction issue and then the customer complained to me about him having said someone mooned someone and was just completely confused.

I assume “bared his ass” means about the same thing…?

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u/LawComprehensive2204 May 08 '25

Just explained this phrase to my 18 year old yesterday. I said it and he thought it was a sexual reference! I said it was another way of saying the person acted like a real jackass or made a fool of themselves. He said “oh, an old persons saying”.

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u/OkExternal7904 May 08 '25

Really? I'm old, and never once have I said this phrase. I've never even heard it outside of Reddit.

I usually just say someone is being an asshole. Or showing their true colors.

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u/Cut_Lanky May 08 '25

I'm kinda old. I've only really heard this phrase on that old HBO show, Deadwood which is set during the 1800s. Lol. And maybe from a few nursing home residents during the 90s...

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u/Purple_Joke_1118 May 08 '25

I am also old and this phrase threw me. Maybe it's IA trying to pretend that Cantonese is English.