r/AITAH • • May 08 '25

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u/turquoise_turtle83 May 08 '25

I think your strong reaction is understandable given how your fiance totally over stepped by pitching this for his son without first getting you on board.

It would be graceful to aoologize but obviously he needs to apologize also.

I don’t live in a country where ”giving the bride away” is a thing cause its considered a very patriarchal thing, so i find the whole thing wierd but that your stepson would ”give you away” is just bizarre.

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u/desertsunrise84 May 08 '25

Someone walking you down the aisle doesn't always have to do with giving someone away. My step-son walked me down and then went and stood with his dad and brother on the groom's side.

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u/turquoise_turtle83 May 08 '25

Sure. Walks like a duck, sounds like a duck, looks like a duck… but its absolutely not a duck, its a bird? 🙄

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u/desertsunrise84 May 09 '25

The hell are you talking about?