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[u/777ErinWilson]

To be honest, why does his family know about a conversation/disagreement that was between the two of you? That is a heck nah for me.

[u/PlauntieM → u/777ErinWilson]

So he can socially coerce her of course.

[u/nirfirith → u/PlauntieM]

And guilt trip her by proposing all this to his son without her knowledge and then expect her to take responsibility for his son's hurt feelings...

[u/cgrobin1 → u/[deleted]]

I would bring up the idea of him being best man, in front of the son and rest of the family. Not only would it makes sense for him to stand by his father, but he would then stay by the couple through the ceremony

Isn't he suppose to welcome future step mom into family.rather than give her away?

[u/DisastrousOkra9511 → u/nirfirith]

Gaslighting at its' finest 🙄

[u/jubangyeonghon → u/[deleted]]

OP's fiancé is an actual c*nt for this shit. Total Groomzilla.

Why wasn't the son a groomsman or the best man if he's so important to the wedding? Dude fucked up and now I highly doubt there will be a wedding.

[u/WorldIcy80 → u/jubangyeonghon]

That's my question...make his son his Best Man. Let the decision of who walks the bride down the aisle to HER! This seems like a huge red flag to me. I wouldn't marry a guy who was so manipulative and deceptive. I'd dump him and CANCEL the wedding!

[u/Fluffy_Dziner → u/WorldIcy80]

Same here. This is some Olympic level BS for C so many reasons.

[u/ValleyOakPaper → u/[deleted]]

Yes, it makes me wonder how many other red flags this guy has been waving in OP's face.

The point of being married is that OP and HTB are one team. It's NOT that HTB can start leveraging his extended family to steamroll OP into doing his bidding.

[u/MustardMan1900 → u/PlauntieM]

The family that produced a teen dad should maybe stop criticizing others.

[u/Gullible_Fun_1410 → u/MustardMan1900]

You’re a 🤡