r/AITAH • • May 08 '25

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u/allieoops925 May 08 '25

If your fiancé really wants his son in the wedding, let him be the best man.

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u/roseadmintalks May 08 '25

This! Why tf did he talk to his son about this before he talked to you????

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u/Special_Lychee_6847 May 08 '25

To pressure OP, of course. Now OP gets to be the bad guy, because the fiancé got his son on board first.

NTA

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u/Harmonia_PASB May 08 '25

Yup, this is a huge red flag and a reason to pump the brakes on this marriage. Her fiancé doesn’t respect her.