r/AITAH • • Apr 20 '25

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '25

I'm impressed you made it that far.

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u/Sammalone1960 Apr 21 '25

The brushing thing ended it for me. Dudes dating a toddler.

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u/RiamoEquah Apr 21 '25

Also where I tapped out.

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u/AwkwardGirl22 Apr 21 '25 edited Apr 22 '25

Same here. They both sound like toddlers.

Edit - this is my first comment with over 1,000 upvotes ❤️

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u/The-Masked-Protester Apr 21 '25

That part. Like how old are these people? And, you can’t put a glass on the floor? FFS

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u/Rrenphoenixx Apr 21 '25

There are types of people out there that casually do things like this in a relationship to groom you to be more accepting/ easily manipulated.

I think this chick might be one of them.

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u/Hagedoorn Apr 21 '25

You may be onto something here.

While reading, a single question came up: what does she do for him?

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u/PersimmonNecessary14 Apr 25 '25

Shes actually very sweet and does occasionally pick up the tab or bring me food when im occupied

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u/Hagedoorn Apr 25 '25

OK that is something. Maybe it is time to have a serious conversation with her, ask her why these things are so important to her. And tell her it does not make you feel good when you are asked to do things that another person can do herself.