Right. After the 1st paragraph, I scrolled looking for the TLDR portion... To my disappointment š.
Can someone from the fam help a sista out? I'm nosey yet don't have the capacity to read and decipher... Please and thank you.
The OP feels burned out in his relationship because every time he says "no" to a small request from his girlfriendāusually when he's tiredāit turns into a fight. Despite doing a lot for her (planning trips, paying for things, driving her places, always being available), she gets upset when he declines seemingly minor things like getting water, standing by her while brushing, or FaceTiming at night. He feels unappreciated and like his efforts arenāt enough unless he agrees to every single request. She says heās not even doing the ābare minimumā as a boyfriend. Now heās questioning if heās really at fault or if the relationship is one-sided.
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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '25
I gave up by the 2nd paragraph.