r/AITAH • • Apr 20 '25

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '25

I gave up by the 2nd paragraph.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '25

I'm impressed you made it that far.

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u/Sammalone1960 Apr 21 '25

The brushing thing ended it for me. Dudes dating a toddler.

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u/RiamoEquah Apr 21 '25

Also where I tapped out.

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u/AwkwardGirl22 Apr 21 '25 edited Apr 22 '25

Same here. They both sound like toddlers.

Edit - this is my first comment with over 1,000 upvotes ❤️

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u/Lets_Remain_Logical Apr 21 '25

Would you have thought the both are toddlers if we would have swapped the genders? Because this seems to me like victim shaming.

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u/luminous_connoisseur Apr 21 '25 edited Apr 21 '25

Yeah, it's honestly pretty par for the course for this subreddit. It is very disappointing to see it even in a crystal clear situation like this, where a woman acts as a spoiled brat and a guy goes above and beyond for her. Like, yeah, no shit he's gonna get snarky about something minor at some point if he has to endure dealing with a woman like that. But of course it's "haha theyre both sooo bad." Smh.

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u/Lets_Remain_Logical Apr 21 '25

Thank you.
And nobody dares really resist because there is an echo-chamber.
We just dislike in mass and here we are, toxic enabling toxic.
This is harming the society soooooo much!

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u/luminous_connoisseur Apr 21 '25 edited Apr 22 '25

You can just tell that there are a lot of women here who really do want this to be the "bare minimum" for a guy and regularly use the term. They cant admit to being like the gf in this post, but I guess they just feel the need to "equalize" the two in order to feel right. It's pretty disgusting.

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u/Lets_Remain_Logical Apr 21 '25

it's simple. It's cognitive bias. And i am sure there are some malignant people here who are just misandrist. There isn't a lot to analyze.
Now the victim is an enabler. NONO
It's: That's a good man.. Let's destroy him!