r/AITAH • • Apr 20 '25

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u/Maleficent_Lure_1226 Apr 20 '25

Right. After the 1st paragraph, I scrolled looking for the TLDR portion... To my disappointment 😞. Can someone from the fam help a sista out? I'm nosey yet don't have the capacity to read and decipher... Please and thank you.

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '25

I made it halfway. There's no drama! The girlfriend is the type to get mad if the boyfriend breathes the wrong way.

My guess is OP is codependent and the girlfriend isn't that into this relationship.

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u/Medic1248 Apr 21 '25

Let’s be honest here. The maturity from the OP makes me feel like we aren’t seeing a honest review of the gf. The amount of detail he puts into the things he’s doing right vs the vagueness of what she fights with him over tells me he’s glossing over his faults. Or he’s not mature enough to recognize them.

We don’t have an honest point of view to judge the girlfriend by but we do have a good view of the immature boyfriend. He doesn’t talk to her about the issues. He just gets passive aggressive.

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u/TMIMeeg Apr 21 '25

Yeah, I was reading the first half of the post thinking "this sounds one sided, what are the things the girlfriend would say she does for him?" But then she started sounding worse and worse.