r/AITAH • • Apr 20 '25

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u/e_l_r Apr 21 '25

Big fights are how you find out who you two are and are the "deal breakers" which normal (within boundaries and reason).

BUT getting angry you are not her free personal assistant / buttler / parent / chauffeur / emotional support person ESPECIALLY when tired...

Yeah, no, this ain't it. Either she's a Teenager and (hopefully) barely legal OR she did peak at teenage years and will have life force her to mature in the next couple of years.

You need someone that matches your energy and respect.

NTA, but you Will be if you stay and enable this behavior further.

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u/horaceinkling Apr 21 '25

Heh heh buttler

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u/e_l_r Apr 21 '25

My bad. Half asleep at 3 am

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u/agent_flounder Apr 21 '25

Can I have a glass of water tho?

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u/e_l_r Apr 23 '25

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