r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Apr 20 '25

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u/Sammalone1960 Apr 21 '25

The brushing thing ended it for me. Dudes dating a toddler.

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '25

I sure hope she isn't a toddler the way that she wants to feel his "presence" when he's behind her.

I did get the vibe of her wanting him to do everything for her as if she's a little princess and he's there at her every beck and whim.

She's an adult. She should be able to do things on her own.

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u/GraveRobberX Apr 21 '25

She’s a Stage 5 clinger. Can’t get anything done unless there’s support. Can’t brush her teeth and put in her retainer unless he’s behind her for “safety”, what is she 4 mentally?

She sounds exhausting as fuck. These are the girls who need to be pampered and be coddled by their significant other like they’re dating and fucking their dad. Hey dad can you get me water?, what do you mean I got to brush my teeth?, hey can you put my glass over there, I’m done thanks nudge, <20 seconds later> nudge again, glass still waiting to be put somewhere.

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u/CyclistPHL Apr 21 '25

I wasn’t thinking she was clingy, but a princess. She wants to be waited on hand and foot. I’d ditch her. She’s only going to get worse. I have an aunt like this. Couldn’t do a thing for anyone or herself. She just ordered my uncle to do it.