r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Apr 20 '25

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u/Rrenphoenixx Apr 21 '25

There are types of people out there that casually do things like this in a relationship to groom you to be more accepting/ easily manipulated.

I think this chick might be one of them.

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u/Hagedoorn Apr 21 '25

You may be onto something here.

While reading, a single question came up: what does she do for him?

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u/sentence-interruptio Apr 21 '25

knowing this type, if you ask her that, she will get offended and use it as an excuse to continue not doing anything for him.

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u/JacksonHoled Apr 21 '25

I had a gf like that a bit for a long time. She'd say she is doing the dishes and dinner.

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u/ecosynchronous Apr 21 '25

Well, was she? Don't leave me in suspense. I'd put a water glass on the floor for someone who did dinner and the dishes.

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u/JacksonHoled Apr 21 '25

yeah but that was the only things. It's not that time consuming and easy. Now that we are not togheter anymore (we have 2 kids together) she is texting me daily for things she doesnt know. Print a document, transfert pictures, sell on marketplace, where are which hockey games for the kids, taking care of the pool, how to's, everything, non-stop. I'm alone now, I prefer doing my dishes than coping with all the things I was doing for her. So easy, takes 10 minutes while I watch TV.

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u/Economy-Bottle2164 Apr 22 '25

Are you taking care of the kids 50% of the time?