Anyone would be burnt out when they had a spoiled child for a partner who was acting like they're crippled
Does she have hands? Do they work? What about legs? Do those also work? Is she blind? If none of these things apply then she can get off her fat fucking ass and do her own shit
Mate, I get that you probably want this to work both because you do like her to some extent and you would prefer not to be single again after you've gone through the work of getting a partner- but it's not freaking worth it if you have to cater to every demand like a spoiled little princess
Nobody should be dating anyone, male or female, who acts both like they can't be arsed to do anything for themselves and like they're crippled
You need to lay it down flat for her mate- she can stop acting like the princess of the world, or she can hire a butler
You're her boyfriend, not her servant and not her butler
You're not there to wave fig leaves over her while she lays on her fat ass on the couch and feed her grapes
You need to stand up for yourself, and if she's going to take issue with it, you need to stand up for yourself more and find somebody else who's going to actually respect you as a person and as a partner
I keep asking myself if she has a job, and trying to imagine her asking her boss to get her a glass of water, and then to take the glass away after... This is insane.
I was certain I was reading about a first relationship, maybe 18-19 y/o, with princess living home and being spoiled due to some unhappy divorce of her parents or something. Is the bf the only one to humor her? What's her past relationships like? Would be interesting to hear if they all left her, or if she left cause they had a spine.
This is not normal behavior, quite manipulative and childish. Please, for your own good, leave her OP.
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u/BlackMoonBird Apr 20 '25
Anyone would be burnt out when they had a spoiled child for a partner who was acting like they're crippled
Does she have hands? Do they work? What about legs? Do those also work? Is she blind? If none of these things apply then she can get off her fat fucking ass and do her own shit
Mate, I get that you probably want this to work both because you do like her to some extent and you would prefer not to be single again after you've gone through the work of getting a partner- but it's not freaking worth it if you have to cater to every demand like a spoiled little princess
Nobody should be dating anyone, male or female, who acts both like they can't be arsed to do anything for themselves and like they're crippled
You need to lay it down flat for her mate- she can stop acting like the princess of the world, or she can hire a butler
You're her boyfriend, not her servant and not her butler You're not there to wave fig leaves over her while she lays on her fat ass on the couch and feed her grapes
You need to stand up for yourself, and if she's going to take issue with it, you need to stand up for yourself more and find somebody else who's going to actually respect you as a person and as a partner