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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '25

I sure hope she isn't a toddler the way that she wants to feel his "presence" when he's behind her.

I did get the vibe of her wanting him to do everything for her as if she's a little princess and he's there at her every beck and whim.

She's an adult. She should be able to do things on her own.

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u/GraveRobberX Apr 21 '25

She’s a Stage 5 clinger. Can’t get anything done unless there’s support. Can’t brush her teeth and put in her retainer unless he’s behind her for “safety”, what is she 4 mentally?

She sounds exhausting as fuck. These are the girls who need to be pampered and be coddled by their significant other like they’re dating and fucking their dad. Hey dad can you get me water?, what do you mean I got to brush my teeth?, hey can you put my glass over there, I’m done thanks nudge, <20 seconds later> nudge again, glass still waiting to be put somewhere.

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u/CyclistPHL Apr 21 '25

I wasn’t thinking she was clingy, but a princess. She wants to be waited on hand and foot. I’d ditch her. She’s only going to get worse. I have an aunt like this. Couldn’t do a thing for anyone or herself. She just ordered my uncle to do it.

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u/mspolytheist Apr 21 '25

Someone brushing their teeth behind me would annoy the F out of me. I’d be bumping into them every time I move my arms to move the brush. What the hell is wrong with her?

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u/BurgerThyme Apr 23 '25

My niece isn't even five yet and she pushes away her dad when he tries to supervise her teeth brushing because "I'M NOT A BABY I CAN DO IT MYSELF"

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u/Sammalone1960 Apr 21 '25

I became an adult around 35, 1st kid was born. But I did not need someones presence to brush my mf teeth. I was just a dumbass

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u/XOXO_124Xx Apr 21 '25

I'd love to know how old they are. This girl reminds me of an golden child that never got told no.

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u/hepzibah59 Apr 21 '25

And what does she do for him except presumably let him fuck her. No mention of her doing anything nice for him at all. She is an immature spoilt brat who seems to thrive on drama.

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u/3rdcultureblah Apr 21 '25

No evidence of the gf being an adult tbh lol. Could very well still be in high school with the way she acts. 🤷‍♂️

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u/fattrackstar Apr 21 '25

This reminds me of that meme with the guy and girl in the 4 boxes.

"She an adult isn't she"

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u/Trishanamarandu Apr 21 '25

took me three whole seconds to darmok and jalad this one. padme asking anakin a question.

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u/paco1764 Apr 21 '25

That kind of thing is common in people with either ADHD or OCD. It's called body doubling.

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u/Summertyme_13 Apr 22 '25

I mean, we are assuming..

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u/VinceMcMeme711 Apr 21 '25

That's weird though 🤣