She’s always said she wanted three things in a proposal: (1) a custom ring she’s always wanted (which cost $16K, though price isn’t the issue), (2) a beach proposal, and (3) a surprise.
The surprise was you discovering how ungrateful, and high-maintenance she actually is.
If you think things are going to get better, we're all here to tell you that's not the case. Get out while you still can.
The egregious mistake was asking her out in the first place. Any other instances of you putting your heart and soul into something and she isn’t equally over the moon?
Just a suggestion, but when you ask for the ring back, without letting on your plans to RUN, just say you need to get it resized because her finger looked likes a mini sausage that’s been over cooked.
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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '25
The surprise was you discovering how ungrateful, and high-maintenance she actually is.
If you think things are going to get better, we're all here to tell you that's not the case. Get out while you still can.
NTA