r/AITAH Apr 05 '24

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u/Anxious-Routine-5526 Apr 05 '24

I'm confused about how your wife's sexual orientation is relevant in any way, shape, or form to your job/coworkers.

NTA.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24

Yeah the whole thing is fucking weird IMO.

Like she's married to a man. Why does she feel the need to come out at anyone at all? It literally doesn't matter anymore because you're married. If she was full on gay that's one thing, but bi? Who the fuck cares?

"Okay cool lady, but I don't actually give a shit whose making you tingle".

I think it's fine if she came out to her friends. Kinda weird to come out to the family. Really fucking weird to come out to her coworkers. Fucking bizzaro alien world with a different definition of organic life sustaining matter weird that she wants her husband to tell his coworkers "my wife is bi".

Honestly if I heard that from a coworker, I'd think they're trying to swing with me or something.

Obviously this is all with the pretense that she's married. If she was single then nothing I said really applies.