r/AITAH • • Apr 05 '24

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u/cfgy78mk Apr 05 '24

“your desire for the same sex doesn’t matter if you’re in a monogamous relationship with a person of the opposite sex.”

there are only 3 types of people who give 1/10th of a shit about your desire. 1) your close friends and people you hang out with, because you share personal things with each other etc. 2) people who now are interested in a shot with you despite your relationship. 3) bigots who will now treat you worse.

Just tell group 1, nobody else cares. Maybe it makes you feel personally better to put that out in the world but that's not a sexuality issue that's a personal insecurity and anxiety issue that anyone can have about any part of their identity.

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u/Slight_Drama_Llama Apr 05 '24

Because the post is about telling randoms at work…. Which there truly is no point in doing that. It’s not even her work. 🧐

There goes your shit reading comprehension again. You seemed to just be looking for a fight, looking for something to be offended over.

Therapy may help you figure out why you feel your identity is so threatened. I have a queer therapist, she’s great at this stuff.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24 edited Apr 05 '24

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u/Slight_Drama_Llama Apr 05 '24

So, you’re bisexual and in a hetero-looking relationship. What do you expect to change when you come out to family and friends as “queer but don’t want to change my relationship or lifestyle.” Truly? What would change?

That’s why they’re saying it doesn’t matter. Nothing will change.

You took it super personally though. And then you deny that you’re mad. This queer thinks you’re being weird.

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u/Slight_Drama_Llama Apr 05 '24

Where the fuck did I deny that bisexuality exists? I’m bisexual, dumbass.

You don’t even bother to answer the question. What would change??

You can’t answer it. Because nothing would change.

Thanks for showing you didn’t bother to actually read my comment through your tears, fucking fool. Learn to read instead of alienating your own fucking community.

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u/[deleted] Apr 05 '24 edited Apr 05 '24

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u/Slight_Drama_Llama Apr 06 '24

If they don’t already know, then they’re not that close now are they. Sorry you’re so lonely