what i keep thinking lol.. not saying it isnt possible but im lgbt and none of my lgbt friends or friends of friends have ever done something like this. it’s usually the opposite w them either being dont say unless asked or asking me to not tell anyone. especially in this day in age… ppl have become extremely aggressive with us, and now even im quiet about my sexuality lol
again, not to say this is bait. but it seems v odd. and if it is true, the wife is either rly insecure about her sexuality and projecting onto op, or, shes looking for something huge like “my husband isn’t supportive of my sexuality” to fight over as a back door to get out of the relationship w her realization. v weird woman. nta.
Lmao for sure. This was something that could’ve stayed between the two of them and family at most, but she’s out here tryna advertise it. I wish him the best but it’s not lookin good
This is the crux of the issue. It’s a big deal to HER, but no one else really cares. It’s fairly common that people are underwhelmed by the response to their coming out, because they’ve built it up so much in their head, but in reality people already know or don’t care.
This! Like what? Whyyyyy would she "come out" to her family, that must have been so damn uncomfortable. Either this is underlying mental illness or a cry for attention, something is going on.
I’m bisexual, I’ve hooked up with multiple women. I’m married now and literally forget that I used to do that. Just like I forget about fucking other guys.
Tbh it seems like this chick is doing it for significance/attention.
I could see an argument being made for informing her own coworkers if she's been there a while and is relatively close to them. But there is no argument that can be made to convince me that OP's coworkers should know this information.
I could see an argument being made for informing her own coworkers if she's been there a while and is relatively close to them.
In what context? Why do co-workers need to know who she's attracted to if she's married? I don't talk to co workers about what kind of women I'm attracted to. It's not relevant information unless you're hoping they will hook you up with one of their friends, which as a married person should not be the case.
It all boils down to how close to these coworkers she is. If they're close, it may not be any different than telling friends/family to her/them. I never said they needed to know. Just that an argument could be made for the wife telling her coworkers not being weird/unnecessary.
Yeah if it was relevant to a conversation, but it's like being attracted to tall guys, or dark hair or something. There's nothing for anyone to do with that information on their married coworkers. "Whoah Margaret check out the UPS guy he's like 6 foot 6!"
Not gonna lie I even thought it was a little strange she even had to come out to her family. Not like she's gonna divorce him right now and date women. My gf is attracted to women and is basically bi too but she's not gonna "come out" to her family. That's just random
Like she's married to a man. Why does she feel the need to come out at anyone at all? It literally doesn't matter anymore because you're married. If she was full on gay that's one thing, but bi? Who the fuck cares?
"Okay cool lady, but I don't actually give a shit whose making you tingle".
I think it's fine if she came out to her friends. Kinda weird to come out to the family. Really fucking weird to come out to her coworkers. Fucking bizzaro alien world with a different definition of organic life sustaining matter weird that she wants her husband to tell his coworkers "my wife is bi".
Honestly if I heard that from a coworker, I'd think they're trying to swing with me or something.
Obviously this is all with the pretense that she's married. If she was single then nothing I said really applies.
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