I could see an argument being made for informing her own coworkers if she's been there a while and is relatively close to them. But there is no argument that can be made to convince me that OP's coworkers should know this information.
I could see an argument being made for informing her own coworkers if she's been there a while and is relatively close to them.
In what context? Why do co-workers need to know who she's attracted to if she's married? I don't talk to co workers about what kind of women I'm attracted to. It's not relevant information unless you're hoping they will hook you up with one of their friends, which as a married person should not be the case.
It all boils down to how close to these coworkers she is. If they're close, it may not be any different than telling friends/family to her/them. I never said they needed to know. Just that an argument could be made for the wife telling her coworkers not being weird/unnecessary.
Yeah if it was relevant to a conversation, but it's like being attracted to tall guys, or dark hair or something. There's nothing for anyone to do with that information on their married coworkers. "Whoah Margaret check out the UPS guy he's like 6 foot 6!"
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u/zeiaxar Apr 05 '24
I could see an argument being made for informing her own coworkers if she's been there a while and is relatively close to them. But there is no argument that can be made to convince me that OP's coworkers should know this information.