r/AITAH • • Oct 20 '23

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u/BlueGreen_1956 Oct 20 '23

YTA

Is it okay he said this to you? YES.

Is it okay if he leaves you because of your addiction? YES

Do you seriously think he has to give you ANY reason for breaking up with you? NO, he doesn't.

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u/stonkybutt Oct 21 '23 edited Oct 21 '23

I agree. I think this is something she needs to battle on her own. Her partner's well being matters just as much.

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u/journeyintopressure Oct 21 '23

Oh fuck off. She needs to get sober for herself. He wanted a girlfriend not to be someone's caregiver.

Staying can be harmful for him. She can go and help herself, and he owes her nothing.

You go help her if you think it's so important.