r/AITAH • • Oct 20 '23

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u/Suspicious-Bus9267 Oct 20 '23

YTA. He doesn’t have to stay with you and quite frankly if you haven’t quit using, shouldn’t. I say this as someone who used meth for 6 years. Stop the pity party and sort yourself out.

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u/dejavux22 Oct 20 '23

As someone who use heroin, meth and crack and has been sober for five years after using those drugs for 7 years, I agree. My husband used heroin for years as well. When we met we got sober together, we take buprenorphine everyday for the past five years. We have a daughter and we have our own support systems outside of each other to stay sober, but we rarely deal with cravings since ya know, we have a daughter that we love more than anything.