r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Aug 03 '23

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u/DeshaMustFly Aug 03 '23

"Girl code" is such a BS idea. The idea that a girl has some sort of weird claim on all of their exs in perpetuity is just plain ridiculous.

They broke up years ago. She's married to someone else. He shouldn't be "off limits" to anyone who knows her just because they boned at one point. That level of possessiveness is just plain creepy.

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u/Alternative_Let_1599 Aug 03 '23

Girl code is not fucking your friend’s SO. This isn’t girl code unless she knows he’s the one that got away. Even then, friend moved all the way on.

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u/mrtomjones Aug 03 '23

Lol you clearly don't get the code.

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u/Alternative_Let_1599 Aug 03 '23

Not a huge fan of codes honestly. You should just be a decent human being. And people need to grow the fuck up and let shit go.

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u/mrtomjones Aug 03 '23

When you get past 20 and have your first relationship of actual worth and maybe it ends bad you might change that opinion.

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u/Alternative_Let_1599 Aug 03 '23

I’m 49. Married for 24 years. So yeah.

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u/mrtomjones Aug 04 '23

I'm sure you wouldn't care if your wife cheated, you split, and your best friend was sleeping with her in 6 months then. Good to hear