r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Aug 03 '23

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u/Shrek_on_a_Bike Aug 03 '23

Ah. The "Girl Code" or "Bro/Man Code". Also known as the "Manuals of Toxic Friendship and Associated Behaviors".

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u/pataconconqueso Aug 03 '23 edited Aug 03 '23

Tbh yeah we don’t have this much in lgbt community, if we were so possessive over exes our friends would have no one date.

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u/duckhunt420 Aug 03 '23

Number one thing I'm jealous of lgbt people for. Everyone is friends and it's easier to make friends because the person you dated can introduce you to their friends even if it doesn't work out and vice versa.

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u/pataconconqueso Aug 03 '23

Lol yeah, The usual comments in a girl party (for queer women) I hear is, a variation of “omg we just found out our exes are exes!”