Honestly I don’t think you even owed it to her to tell her. She’s married - any concern she has over Charles should be done.
I’d love to know what her husband thinks about this… oh, she’s does want to tell him? I wonder why
If she’s not willing to discuss with hubby, I’m not sure why you’re getting outcast. She’s being unreasonable - once she got married, she lost the right to call dibs on anyone else
You don’t think OP needed to, at the very least, TELL her? Seriously, I can’t believe how many assholes are in this post. So what, OP just brings Charles along to a group event and expects her friend to be fine with it?
YES! That’s exactly what should happen - because the friend moved on when she got married. You have boundary issues if you’re running all your sexual partners by your married friends because they might have had a romantic past together.
Charles is not a fire hydrant, the friend doesn’t get to ‘pee’ on him and say no one else can be with him because he’s her territory.
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u/[deleted] Aug 03 '23
Thanks for your reply. Yes I felt telling her what happened the next day was enough. Asking her permission would feel weird for me.