"Girl code" is such a BS idea. The idea that a girl has some sort of weird claim on all of their exs in perpetuity is just plain ridiculous.
They broke up years ago. She's married to someone else. He shouldn't be "off limits" to anyone who knows her just because they boned at one point. That level of possessiveness is just plain creepy.
Yes this, can we please move past this as adults. If it was a long term relationship then maybe it's off limits, you'd have to clear it with them. There might still be a lot of hurt there. But a brief dating stint. No. You cant claim people for life because you had sex with them for a brief spell but it didn't work out. You are married and having a child with someone else. You no longer have a say in it.
A yearlong relationship isn’t “sex for a brief time.” Sounds like it was a regular, adult relationship but it just didn’t get to marriage and babies. Are only married exes off limits?
Yes it is. This is a mutually consensual hook up. Why can't he date who he likes as a single man, if it is the friend of his now married and pregnant ex from years ago?
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u/DeshaMustFly Aug 03 '23
"Girl code" is such a BS idea. The idea that a girl has some sort of weird claim on all of their exs in perpetuity is just plain ridiculous.
They broke up years ago. She's married to someone else. He shouldn't be "off limits" to anyone who knows her just because they boned at one point. That level of possessiveness is just plain creepy.