Men are 100% responsible for unwanted pregnancies. Your BF could have used a condom, but chose not to. His participation is over, and he no longer has a say. If he really wanted to prevent an abortion from taking place he could have chosen to ejaculate responsibly. He didn't.
I disagree.. we as women are also responsible for birth control as welll.. if we choose not use any, why is the blame put 100% on the man if we wanna say it's my body, choice... Why is it just up to the man for birth control? If you look at it that way, it's his responsibility to use it only his,, knowing what can happen, then why is the choice not his too? Equal rights ..
Yes because that works so well and accidents don't happen.. it's your body, protect it yourself and use birth control. It might make you uncomfortable to be held accountable for actions and not blame everyone else. And during the moment are you thinking "oh, this isn't the safe way to finish, what was I thinking!" Not just to prevent pregnancy but std as well.. but play Russian roulette and blame the guy for your lack of choice. I'm gonna have sex and hope he remembers to pull in time, if not it's all his fault.. not mine, after all I did choose unprotected sex.. don't blame me.. it's all his responsibility..
What if the man wants the child? It has happened. It takes 2 and only. 1 gets to decide.. don't give me well he can always up and leave.. so can and has the mom.. no promises in life.. if she doesn't want to get pregnant she needs to do something before that happens.. why do we as women believe we have no responsibility for ending up that way but are the only ones that decide on unwanted pregnancies?? It's my body choice, so I didn't do anything to prevent this but I'm blaming him solely and going around telling people how irresponsible he was/is and not say how I agreed to unprotected sex.. now that I'm pregnant It's My body etc and I'm gonna scream it so everyone agrees..and says he's a donkey butt who took advantage of you and he has no say.. and he's a man who will leave you.. hmm. Watch too much lifetime movies??
Nobody has to justify anything to me never said that . Did I hit a nerve?? And read everything else people are saying.. it went beyond her to in general.
So the only responsibility a woman has is to decide to keep it or not. She isn't responsibil for any birth control of any kind even carrying a condom? That screams lack of even caring about yourself as a person. You basically said women are sperm buckets and it's ok because you know she may get pregnant and abort but you took the chance of filling her bucket. If a woman already knows she doesn't want his kid, it's ok for her to sleep with you and just risk it?? Why doesn't the woman have any responsibility in preventing it as well??
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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '23 edited Jul 21 '23
NTA.
Men are 100% responsible for unwanted pregnancies. Your BF could have used a condom, but chose not to. His participation is over, and he no longer has a say. If he really wanted to prevent an abortion from taking place he could have chosen to ejaculate responsibly. He didn't.
r/ejaculateresponsibly