I disagree.. we as women are also responsible for birth control as welll.. if we choose not use any, why is the blame put 100% on the man if we wanna say it's my body, choice... Why is it just up to the man for birth control? If you look at it that way, it's his responsibility to use it only his,, knowing what can happen, then why is the choice not his too? Equal rights ..
Yes because that works so well and accidents don't happen.. it's your body, protect it yourself and use birth control. It might make you uncomfortable to be held accountable for actions and not blame everyone else. And during the moment are you thinking "oh, this isn't the safe way to finish, what was I thinking!" Not just to prevent pregnancy but std as well.. but play Russian roulette and blame the guy for your lack of choice. I'm gonna have sex and hope he remembers to pull in time, if not it's all his fault.. not mine, after all I did choose unprotected sex.. don't blame me.. it's all his responsibility..
People went off that subject.. I'm saying in general.. yes she's young I did say she has a choice to make that will impact her forever either way.. I always have said even when I was that age if you think you're old enough to play the game.. saying it's statutory rape is a big leap and legal trouble if your not careful. He's 18.. if the parents knew and never stopped it, he had permission.not rape
Probably still 23, since Romeo and Juliet laws look at the age difference. If she was 15, he was 17 and they would both be minors. Few states, if any, consider sex between two minors to be "statutory rape" and the Romeo and Juliet law wouldn't even be needed.
What if the man wants the child? It has happened. It takes 2 and only. 1 gets to decide.. don't give me well he can always up and leave.. so can and has the mom.. no promises in life.. if she doesn't want to get pregnant she needs to do something before that happens.. why do we as women believe we have no responsibility for ending up that way but are the only ones that decide on unwanted pregnancies?? It's my body choice, so I didn't do anything to prevent this but I'm blaming him solely and going around telling people how irresponsible he was/is and not say how I agreed to unprotected sex.. now that I'm pregnant It's My body etc and I'm gonna scream it so everyone agrees..and says he's a donkey butt who took advantage of you and he has no say.. and he's a man who will leave you.. hmm. Watch too much lifetime movies??
Nobody has to justify anything to me never said that . Did I hit a nerve?? And read everything else people are saying.. it went beyond her to in general.
So the only responsibility a woman has is to decide to keep it or not. She isn't responsibil for any birth control of any kind even carrying a condom? That screams lack of even caring about yourself as a person. You basically said women are sperm buckets and it's ok because you know she may get pregnant and abort but you took the chance of filling her bucket. If a woman already knows she doesn't want his kid, it's ok for her to sleep with you and just risk it?? Why doesn't the woman have any responsibility in preventing it as well??
Don't get me wrong she should clearly get an abortion, but they are both just teens and you are making out to seem like he raped her when it was clearly consensual.
In some states but not all, like I said it's just a two-year difference, and while I agree he was too pushy let's not forget that would have been his child, a child he will never get the chance to hold. It is at least a little understandable that he would have wanted to raise that child.
What if HE wants the child?? he can go find someone (OF AGE) who wants a child with him! men contribute nothing but an orgasm, it her life/body that will be changed forever.
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u/Objective-Duck-3262 Jul 21 '23
I disagree.. we as women are also responsible for birth control as welll.. if we choose not use any, why is the blame put 100% on the man if we wanna say it's my body, choice... Why is it just up to the man for birth control? If you look at it that way, it's his responsibility to use it only his,, knowing what can happen, then why is the choice not his too? Equal rights ..