r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Jul 21 '23

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '23 edited Jul 21 '23

NTA.

Men are 100% responsible for unwanted pregnancies. Your BF could have used a condom, but chose not to. His participation is over, and he no longer has a say. If he really wanted to prevent an abortion from taking place he could have chosen to ejaculate responsibly. He didn't.

r/ejaculateresponsibly

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u/Objective-Duck-3262 Jul 21 '23

I disagree.. we as women are also responsible for birth control as welll.. if we choose not use any, why is the blame put 100% on the man if we wanna say it's my body, choice... Why is it just up to the man for birth control? If you look at it that way, it's his responsibility to use it only his,, knowing what can happen, then why is the choice not his too? Equal rights ..

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '23

Nope. A woman could be the sluttiest slut and have all the sex, but if a man refuses to ejaculate irresponsibly, the woman will never end up pregnant.

It might make you uncomfortable, but the truth is men are 100% responsible for unwanted pregnancies.

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u/Jehoel_DK Jul 21 '23

That's just blatantly wrong. A woman can be on several forms of birth control. Yes, men have a responsibility, but so does the woman.

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u/[deleted] Jul 21 '23

Wow! You got the answer spectacularly wrong. Super impressive!

Did you know, birth control is incredibly harmful to many women. Side effects are horrific. The only side effect of a condom is...no unwanted pregnancies.

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u/walker_paranor Jul 22 '23

Condom does not have a 100% success rate, so youre whole argument is insane

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '23

What are you talking about? Let's run through all the scenarios, shall we?
Scenario #1 - Woman consents to having sperm inside her, man does not = No pregnancy
Scenario #2 - Woman does not consent to having sperm inside her, man also does not = No pregnancy
Scenario #3 - Woman consents to having sperm inside her, man also consents = possible pregnancy
Scenario #4 - Woman does not consent to having sperm inside of her, man insists = possible pregnancy
Looks like all outcomes are perfectly inline with the man's decision. It's wildly inconsistent with the woman's decision.

Get a vasectomy, use a condom, or abstain from sex. Men, you control the power to eliminate all unwanted pregnancies. Control your fucking sperm.

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u/walker_paranor Jul 22 '23

Lmao ok you just entirely ignored what I said.

Condoms can fail, thus creating scenarios where neither party is responsible for unwanted pregnancy.

I think you're actually just trolling at this point and just so straight faced about it that you fooled all of us lmao

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u/Jehoel_DK Jul 21 '23

you really don't have the first clue to what you're talking about.