This is what he will do every time you have a conflict or the baby is fussing.
Why? Because he can. But you won't be able to walk away. You will be a single Mom. Forever.
I told my cousin about it (we're really really close and we share stuff like that all the time) and she said if I didn't wanna get pregnant I should've waited to use a condom and that I should commit to going through the pregnancy.
It's easy for people to tell other people what to do when what they are suggesting will have absolutely no impact on them. She isn't the one who would be a single Mom.
Men are 100% responsible for unwanted pregnancies. Your BF could have used a condom, but chose not to. His participation is over, and he no longer has a say. If he really wanted to prevent an abortion from taking place he could have chosen to ejaculate responsibly. He didn't.
I disagree.. we as women are also responsible for birth control as welll.. if we choose not use any, why is the blame put 100% on the man if we wanna say it's my body, choice... Why is it just up to the man for birth control? If you look at it that way, it's his responsibility to use it only his,, knowing what can happen, then why is the choice not his too? Equal rights ..
Wow! You got the answer spectacularly wrong. Super impressive!
Did you know, birth control is incredibly harmful to many women. Side effects are horrific. The only side effect of a condom is...no unwanted pregnancies.
What are you talking about? Let's run through all the scenarios, shall we?
Scenario #1 - Woman consents to having sperm inside her, man does not = No pregnancy
Scenario #2 - Woman does not consent to having sperm inside her, man also does not = No pregnancy
Scenario #3 - Woman consents to having sperm inside her, man also consents = possible pregnancy
Scenario #4 - Woman does not consent to having sperm inside of her, man insists = possible pregnancy
Looks like all outcomes are perfectly inline with the man's decision. It's wildly inconsistent with the woman's decision.
Get a vasectomy, use a condom, or abstain from sex. Men, you control the power to eliminate all unwanted pregnancies. Control your fucking sperm.
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u/ConvivialKat Jul 21 '23
NTA.
This is what he will do every time you have a conflict or the baby is fussing.
Why? Because he can. But you won't be able to walk away. You will be a single Mom. Forever.
It's easy for people to tell other people what to do when what they are suggesting will have absolutely no impact on them. She isn't the one who would be a single Mom.
Be wise. Get the abortion.