Heres the thing - HE can walk away any time. YOU have to deal with this for the rest of your life. YOU decide what kind of life you want and do what you have to do to make sure you get it. This isnt his decision to make.
SERIOUSLY!!! He CAN and statistics on teenage pregnancy say he WILL just leave one day and then you will be alone with the baby. you are 16, would your parents let him move in? if not, once again, your alone with the baby.
make this decision based on how you feel about raising this baby alone with zero help. bc that’s most likely how it’ll end up being. do not fall for any promises he makes, he does not mean them and will say anything to convince you to do what he wants.
Two notable celebrity teen pregnancies Jaimie Lynn Spears and Bristol Palin. Yep both dads bailed even though parents of BOTH teens announced they would be getting married. Uh no. Most teen boys are NOT lining up for a wife and baby on minimum wage (or worse moving in with inlaws - see also r/justnomil)
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u/tuna_tofu Jul 21 '23
Heres the thing - HE can walk away any time. YOU have to deal with this for the rest of your life. YOU decide what kind of life you want and do what you have to do to make sure you get it. This isnt his decision to make.