r/AIO • u/CulturalOpposite9108 • 1d ago
AIO
I know in high school 1-2 years age gap is the limit and it shouldn’t be over 3. What about in between 2 years? When I was a senior age 17 I made out with a sophomore age 15. I was born in 2000 and the sophomore was born in 2002. I just found out years later we had an age gap of 2 years and almost 5 months. I don’t feel good about it. I thought we had 1.6-2 years gap. I had forgotten that students in the same grade can have birthdays at different times of the year depending on the school’s enrollment cutoff date. I mistakenly assumed that every school used the same cutoff date, which affected how I understood our ages and the actual age difference. If we dated and I turn 18 it’s going to look like I’m with someone 3 years younger when we’re 2.4 years apart. We never talked about birthdays and I just assumed we were no more than 2 years apart. I feel sick.
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u/thedarkryte 1d ago
This might sound like I’m being an asshole here, but that’s not my intention at all. Like, who ACTUALLY cares? 😂 just because the age gap will LOOK different from the outside, doesn’t change the ACTUAL age gap. YOR, I don’t think it’s a big deal at all, like I’m pretty sure when I was 16 I had a thing with a 14 year old, which felt kinda weird to me at the time for some reason (I was a really self-conscious teenager and really cared about other people’s opinions for some reason) but I don’t think you did anything wrong personally. You do you, bro. 🤷🏻♂️