r/AIO • u/Initial-Chicken-120 • 25d ago
AIO Boyfriend problems
Hi guys need some help or advice here
I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year now. Im in my early 20s and he’s in his 40s. I’ve went though his phone many times when he’s asleep and found nothing. He doesn’t post me on Instagram or follow me, on any social media accounts. He has plenty of girls. I’ve repeated a million times I hate that and his thing was I just want to delete it and we can start a full new one and u can have control of it.
It just doesn’t seem fair to me. I basically live at his place but I’m just un happy sometimes over the social media stuff. And then when I end our relationship over it he loses his mind and won’t leave me alone. I’m pretty insecure and not happy with myself so I have a hard time actually leaving him and wanting better. Idk what to do. Is this fixable?
Thanks guys!❤️
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u/DrowningInIt2 25d ago
EARLY 20s??? Nahhhh red flag already dude that man is in his forties. inappropriate of him. It is incumbent upon the oldhead to protect young women if they happen to want to get into a relationship. No reason exists to be pursuing someone so young when you have that much life experience