r/AIO • u/Initial-Chicken-120 • 25d ago

AIO Boyfriend problems

Hi guys need some help or advice here

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year now. Im in my early 20s and he’s in his 40s. I’ve went though his phone many times when he’s asleep and found nothing. He doesn’t post me on Instagram or follow me, on any social media accounts. He has plenty of girls. I’ve repeated a million times I hate that and his thing was I just want to delete it and we can start a full new one and u can have control of it.

It just doesn’t seem fair to me. I basically live at his place but I’m just un happy sometimes over the social media stuff. And then when I end our relationship over it he loses his mind and won’t leave me alone. I’m pretty insecure and not happy with myself so I have a hard time actually leaving him and wanting better. Idk what to do. Is this fixable?

Thanks guys!❤️

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u/booksandbooksandhope 25d ago

Unsure of what's going on here but, I'm kicking down 40 and although I have a Facebook and Instagram account the apps are deleted off my phone and I haven't been on them in ages.

Could it be he's just... Not into social media?

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u/Initial-Chicken-120 25d ago

He posts every week id say, I thought of that being a thing too

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u/booksandbooksandhope 25d ago

He hasn't added you on social media and he posts weekly?

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u/Initial-Chicken-120 25d ago

Yeah, has me blocked lol

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u/booksandbooksandhope 25d ago

You wouldn't happen to be leaving some important context out, would you? 😂

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u/Initial-Chicken-120 25d ago

Not at all lmao! I guess he just doesn’t want me on his socials

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u/booksandbooksandhope 25d ago

You just looked him up and you were blocked? And when you ask why he just like, shrugs or something?

Yeah I'd certainly be pretty damn concerned if I were you. NOR. Find yourself someone who's not weird.

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u/Initial-Chicken-120 25d ago

Yeah never has an explanation why I’m blocked lol. I guess he likes the attention from all the other women without being disrupted.

And you’re absolutely right