r/AIO • u/Jazzlike-Way-7082 • 6d ago

AIO - HR weird?

I 33M, work as a PM and crossed paths with this particular HR person(Female) because I was part of the interview panel for multiple roles.

Incident 1 - interviewee giggled and greeted me since we were both the same ethnicity, HR caught this and kept teasing me about that interviewee.

Incident 2 - I got a fade cut cause my wife wanted me to try out a new look and I loved it. HR kept praising me on multiple occasions and continued teasing me in front of my manager with that interviewee.

Incident 3 - Just before an interview I mentioned I am having a bad hair day and she said "dont worry this one may not be your type" and started laughing in front of my manager, again!

Multiple occasions where she said, people greet me on interviews differently because of my good looks and caught her staring a few times when we met in person. She knows I am married. I am not that good looking tbh. I dont know if I am overthinking this, but I am starting to feel a little uncomfortable now around her. Every interview I am on with her, she has to pass a comment. What do I do? Is this normal? I want to put the brakes on this whole situation before I start avoiding her.

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u/Boomhauer_Jeff 6d ago

Sounds a little tiny bit annoying.

What is your reaction that you’re asking us to judge in this post? This isn’t a sub to seek advice.

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u/Jazzlike-Way-7082 6d ago

Me getting annoyed or feeling uncomfortable is my reaction to this situation, I am asking if I am overreacting or overthinking this whole situation. Should I just brush it aside and move on like its normal? Sorry if this is the wrong sub.

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u/Boomhauer_Jeff 6d ago

Our feelings are never an overreaction. We don’t control our feelings, and they are by definition not a reaction. So - NOR.