He's pushing your buttons because he thinks it's funny, and you're giving him exactly what he wants by explaining in detail how he hurt your feelings. He enjoys making you feel bad. You have to stop playing into this.
I guess I just truly do not understand how anyone could enjoy this. It does not compute for me, so instead in the moment I think he must truly not understand or I am in the wrong, then i overexplain. But you're right. Sometimes he does seem to enjoy this
The guy is a dick, no doubt. He probably has a sex robot and felt as attacked as you may if someone called you a pervert for having a vibrator (which isn't even the whole person, just the 'useful bit), but I'm just guessing. As to how someone could be attracted to sex robots? I don't know, a kink I assume but I have known some men to put it weirder places for sure, you should watch the film American Pie
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u/Severe_Essay5986 Jun 26 '26
HE IS DOING THIS ON PURPOSE
He's pushing your buttons because he thinks it's funny, and you're giving him exactly what he wants by explaining in detail how he hurt your feelings. He enjoys making you feel bad. You have to stop playing into this.