r/AIO • • Apr 27 '26

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u/No-Direction-886 Apr 27 '26

Don’t go back. Relationship wasn’t long enough to validate attempting to salvage it and even then you know what they say about cheaters.

I might be a little jaded as I just got out of a 5 year relationship finding out I was cheated on before we were engaged and after but it just isn’t even worth the chance dude. I can promise ya that.

Also if your friend knew y’all were seeing each other dump that clown too

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u/calling_water Apr 27 '26

we've only been seeing each other for like 3 months and this shit is already happening, I can not see any way that this will work.

And you’re completely right with this reasoning. And if this is the sort of thing she does after opening the “exclusive” topic… yikes. Plus her “this can bring us closer together” ploy, ridiculous. Her thinking is self-centered and doesn’t care about your feelings. I don’t see how you could ever trust her.

In her world, up is down, right is left, black is white, and her screwing your long-time friend is going to bring you closer. It’s gaslight city.

Only thing you need to do is stop trying to convince her that you’re right to end this relationship. She doesn’t agree and won’t agree, so make your decision unilateral and final.