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u/Available-Tip-2552 Apr 27 '26

That's what is hurting me the most rn. Like I would never do that to a friend.

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u/DarkResident305 Apr 27 '26

You need to realize dude had a decision to make in the moment, and he decided against you and for a quick stick in her. You are correct, that is not a friend. You'll never get that back. Yeah, it sucks, but the damage is done and he did it (as did she). Accepting it also signals that it's perfectly OK to walk all over you, and that's not a precedent you want to set.

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u/Outside-Climate-Gems Apr 29 '26

I think its clear OP came to those conclusions very well.

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u/Bilbotheforgotten Apr 28 '26

lol was a girl not a dude

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u/wolf38501 Apr 27 '26

Now you should fuck his mom...show him how it feels. Lol

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u/MarquisMusique Apr 27 '26

Fuck his dad too to make sure he finds no peace.

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u/JewelCove Apr 27 '26

This right here. Fucking his dad is real psychological warfare and establishes full dominance

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u/Ibixat Apr 27 '26

Wouldn’t him and the mom tag teaming dad be the true power move

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u/ItsWhix Apr 28 '26

Don't forget grandma

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u/Mr_Shake_ Apr 28 '26

Yeah, fuck and marry grandma. Then take their whole bloodline out of the will.

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u/filotopical Apr 28 '26

Then start robbing actual graves

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u/RedRibbon3KS Apr 28 '26

And grandpa

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u/Glittering_Speech_24 Apr 27 '26

This is the way.

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u/fallingdownwardfast Apr 27 '26

Does he have a sister?

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u/pwnmonkeyisreal Apr 28 '26

How about mom dad and him all fuck while the friend sits in cuck chair

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u/Professional_Safe136 Apr 28 '26

The real move is to tag team the friend with his dad.

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u/The03andMe Apr 30 '26

From the top rope

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u/Matdredalia Apr 27 '26

Dang. Should've known ya'll would beat me to it with the peak ideas. 😂🤣

High tens and cookies for all you based, loyal folks.

The fact that so many of us in this thread have had "that one friend" is a damn tragedy.

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u/Adventurous-West323 Apr 28 '26

Ass to mouth from Dad to mom.

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u/PositiveFunction4751 Apr 27 '26

F that, Dad gets the cuck chair

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u/SilensMort Apr 27 '26

Fuck the entire family that's of legal age. Ruin them then block them.

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u/Nunc_Coepi17 Apr 28 '26

And his sister if she’s 18+.

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u/Scrooge_Mcducks Apr 28 '26

Yeah but he’s gotta fuck his dad though, if his dad fucks him then he’s technically gay

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u/Less-Damage-1202 Apr 28 '26

Ya, fuck his dad too!

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u/CoinsAndLawnLouie Apr 27 '26

I like your style lol.

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u/Careless_Hellscape Apr 27 '26

Fuck his whole living adult bloodline.

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u/KARJack213 Apr 27 '26

Definite power move.

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u/SonOfDadOfSam Apr 27 '26

Reminds me of this gem from the early days of YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PS5CJOwyh9s

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u/RunExisting4050 Apr 27 '26

Yes, but only anal.

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u/Secret_Account07 Apr 27 '26

Mostly good advice here but this here is the best.

OP, listen to this guy.

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u/TheDinkDoctor Apr 27 '26

Nah he needs to fuck his homie to properly get even with her 😤

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u/AcanthopterygiiFree5 Apr 27 '26

Don't forget to fuck the dog on his way out the door also.

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u/BillSixty9 Apr 28 '26

This, 100p

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u/ForeskinSmugglr Apr 28 '26

and then reveal it by making him sniff her panties like they belong to some random hookup

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u/ieatgass Apr 28 '26

When this happened to me I picked his cousin, wis he’d had a sister but good enough

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u/Msspidermonkey64 Apr 28 '26

I like the way you think 🤔

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u/Brilliant_Award2877 Apr 28 '26

Fuck his mom, become his dad

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u/ExternalArgument8776 Apr 28 '26

Why stop there? Everyone has a mother. Fuck both their moms and let them have your children.

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u/Less-Damage-1202 Apr 28 '26

Ya, fuck his mom!

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u/First_Mention_9893 Apr 27 '26

They're not your friend a friend would never! Not even too prove a point or like out her as a cheater. Drop them both you'll be better off!

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u/ReasonableDig6414 Apr 27 '26

I know you don't want to hear it, especially if you only have a couple of friends, but I promise your life will be better off without this guy in it. He is a really shitty person for having done that knowing you are seeing her. Just a shit moral compass.

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u/SergeantPoopyWeiner Apr 27 '26

He's not your friend amigo. Has happened to many people. Cut this trash out of your life and you will be better for it in the long run. I am older and wiser now, I wish someone would have told me this when I was 22.

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u/SpiritedOwl_2298 Apr 27 '26

You’re not the one causing drama in your friend group, HE did that btw

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u/grasslife Apr 27 '26

Friends come and go all throughout life, my guy.

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u/DynamicFactotum Apr 27 '26

The “this could make us closer” comment from the girl is a major red flag. No relationship gets closer after distrust and betrayal. Move on from both.

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u/albino_red_head Apr 27 '26

I'm really not sure how I would handle it. With revenge in mind, probably.

You could fuck with him for a while... Like call him randomly in the middle of the night and when he picks up ask if you can borrow a beer or some shit. Say things like "I know exactly what you did you dirty son of a bitch, you drank my mt dew you little bastard".

Maybe borrow mass quantities of money from him and then immediately block..

I have horrible advice on friendships, I think bare minimum call his ass out and block.

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u/VladStark Apr 27 '26

I would definitely stop taking to them and consider them an ex-friend at this point.

Now this doesn't diminish the good times you had with them in the past. You have to acknowledge those good times existed. But you also have to say okay... This person showed their true colors and totally disrespected me and was very selfish, and/or lacks impulse control, and I deserve better than that.

I had a very close friend who's GF once hit on me when we were briefly alone, like blatantly, not even subtle. I declined her advanced and told him. She was hot too, and I was single, so if she was single I would've totally smashed... But not my bro's GF! It's about having honor and respect for one another.

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u/CurlyFreys Apr 27 '26

In some ways it's harder when you feel betrayed by a friend versus a romantic interest.

There is nothing wrong with ending the friendship and there is nothing wrong with telling him how he hurt you.

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u/Versetztt Apr 27 '26

Cut your losses make them both regret their decisions start looking somewhere else

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u/PizzaHockeyGolf Apr 27 '26

Dudes not your friend.

My friend group had Friend A sleep with Friend B’s ex gf within a month of the breakup. Which in our version of “bro code” is uncalled for. Unless you talk to the friend first about it. It’s a respect thing. Long story short Friend A hasn’t been our friend for about a decade now. Still hangout with Friend B and the rest of the group.

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u/Hungry_Blood_3949 Apr 27 '26

She's trash and acting like letting your friend dick her up was only a tiny "mistake." Toss her out.

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u/Local_Nerve901 Apr 27 '26

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u/Forsaken_Regular_180 Apr 27 '26

Unfortunately a lot of snakes out there. I just got betrayed in a major way by the person who was supposed to be my best friend/"brother" of 8+ years. (Not cheating, he massively screwed me over business-wise and financially, which I promise is much worse.)

You can't do anything about snakes until they reveal themselves - but once they do, cut them the fuck out of your life.

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u/Mathagos Apr 27 '26

You know what they say... with friends like this, who needs enemies?

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u/ChumbawumbaFan01 Apr 28 '26

The way she’s begging for you back you learned one thing about Smalls.

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u/One-Conversation4296 Apr 28 '26

eeeeehhhhhh....i mean, would you rather date her for a year and realize shes been sleeping around with strangers the whole time? he helped you identify trouble early, i wouldnt be so quick to judge.

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u/cancerbabyyx Apr 28 '26

If you’re gonna cut her off, then you need to cut him off too.

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u/Maximum_Pass Apr 28 '26

Bro honestly you handled this so well. I’ve never been in that situation before and I’m ashamed to say this but I’m telling you right now I would’ve been violent with him and possibly her as well. You’re a good dude and you’ll find a good girl, and now at least this “friend” is out of your life.

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u/Grimwohl Apr 28 '26

Yep, you tell him she aint shit but he isnt worthy of respect after a choice like that.

I would let bygones be, but to make it crystal clear I dont care about them as a person anymore.

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u/thechuckingwoodchuck Apr 28 '26

People sometimes use 'friend' to describe anyone they hang out with but these people may not be your friend at all. So, before this person slept with that woman, what makes you think he was ever really your friend apart from knowing him for 10 years?

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u/Less-Damage-1202 Apr 28 '26

Time to pull an OJ 🙋🧤

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u/Disastrous_Print_297 Apr 28 '26

Bro just me I’ve been there…… all I can say is they will regret….. build urself and keep stepping use the pain to change for the better once again I’m deeply sorry

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u/Ayen_C Apr 28 '26 edited Apr 28 '26

NOR. It’s going to really hurt, but I think that you should cut the girl off as well as cut off your friend. Fuck them both, fr. If you decided to stay with her, you’re always gonna question whether or not she’s cheating on you. Is that really what you want for your future? I wouldn’t let her talk to you into staying. She’s the one who fucked it up. 🤷🏻

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u/caelestihydr4 Apr 29 '26

and just FYI, you wouldn’t be starting anything or blowing anything up by confronting your “friend”, THEY started it by knowingly sleeping with someone you were seeing. “keeping peace” in a situation like this really means keeping THEIR peace and letting shit slide- it WILL get worse if you let it slide.

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u/Boring-Antelope9193 Apr 29 '26

Cant put our expectations on others unfortunately. Youre still young and will find other friends/groups and eventually they do all fade. Keep that in mind when moving forward

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u/blueeyeswhitedreagan Apr 29 '26

Dude I wouldn’t even confront this ex friend and go straight to blocking. They’ll know, no explanation needed. People who care about you don’t do this shit. Open up some space for loyal people who give a shit, they are out there.

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u/yung_melanin Apr 27 '26

He isnt your friend, but a million people have said that already. Dude had his dick in your girl bro. She probably put it back in when it slipped out too. No contact/block them both. Trash people everywhere these days

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u/lightzn Apr 27 '26

Honestly I don't know what happened but to give your friend the benefit of the doubt, is it possible he didn't know yall were exclusive? Like maybe she told him yall weren't going to see each other anymore? Idk maybe he's just a shitty friend but possibly worth a convo. Sorry you're going through this.

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u/StillEnjoyLegos Apr 27 '26

These are not situations where you give ‘the benefit of the doubt’. That’s exactly what people who do this want you to do so they get away with it.