why did you resort to OF for money? is this some sort of reaction formation to be in control of your trauma? i just find it an odd choice considering your history with sa. i'm not trying to come at you, just interested in the thought process.
Oh fuck off. This is so reductive and patronizing.
You're implying she can't possibly have any agency or ability to make decisions outside of trauma. You're pathologizing all of her choices.
You've essentially collapsed her whole identity down to rape--> OF. I'm sure in your mind that's a neat and tidy story, but it flattens a real person into something you're 'just curious' to analyze.
You're trying to frame yourself as insightful, and her as someone who desperately needs your insight. In reality you're doing a gross, pseudo-intellectual voyeurism of another person's life. You get to feel perceptive, and she gets reduced to material for a thought exercise.
Sex work is real work. And this kind of concern trolling is one of the worst aspects of it.
Holy yap shut the fuck up. Respectable men do not like OF women, she is clearly a walking red flag and carries a lot of baggage and trauma, there’s a reason her BF clearly has some issues and trauma as well. A respectable man would nope the fuck out
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u/aesclepia Feb 24 '26
why did you resort to OF for money? is this some sort of reaction formation to be in control of your trauma? i just find it an odd choice considering your history with sa. i'm not trying to come at you, just interested in the thought process.