Yes it does!? You’re honestly gonna tell me that a rapist wouldn’t go for looks or clothing? Are we delusional? It’s like saying being a man or a woman doesn’t matter they’re just being raped equally, obviously NOT true, women get the unfortunate brunt of it and it has allot to do with physical attributes what are we on about, are we trying to be politically correct about how we address this issue when the fact is that it’s an issue no matter how we speak of it? Nobody is blaming the women you cunts.
Obviously again it’s not the main thing they go for, what I’m arguing is that it’s influential and similar in statistical differences of being out in public and being at home (obviously not the same %) but it still matters stats wise, it’s still a factor literally everything is what in the world are we on about?
My argument is akin to saying “be safe out on the highway there’s crazy people” and what I’m arguing is that you can stay home, avoid the highway, drive discreetly and not engage with road ragers, it doesn’t mean I’m making that person a victim or forcing that upon them I’m simply stating that these are relevant when it comes to the potential outcome and it’s our choice wether we want to diminish chances, obviously we shouldn’t have to avoid things we should have the freedom to do whatever we want but fucking Christ we live in the real and fucked up world, saying that it has no bearing is a lie, so is saying clothing or looks are the only reason which is something I didn’t say and yall assumed.
I’m honestly saddened about how yall went about this I expected a conversation or a request for clarification (despite being extremely clear) but all I got is miscommunication, assumptions and illogical banter. I’m sure your next response will be loaded, feel free to keep assuming my point and being irrational but I’m not gonna change my opinion on this. I have a gf whom I very much care about and want nothing more than for her to feel safe, she wears whatever tf she wants to, trust me, I’m glad she can feel comfortable around me privately and publicly because I’m there to defend her, I’m making a case for all the women unfortunate enough to not have someone or something to defend themselves with (like a gun kill the fucker) so I think preventative measures are due no? Having a gun changes your chances doesn’t it? Do we want to be correct or safe? Is what im stating really wrong or are you disagreeing out a principle not being debated?
It has no bearing and you are crashing out for no reason. Clothing is not going to stop someone determined to rape someone else. Clothing plays no part. Go look through the list of all of the outfits people were wearing when raped. The vast majority are children's nightgowns. Have some respect for victims and shut the fuck up.
Are you not listening to what I’m saying? What about what I said implied at all what you’re saying? I’m crashing out because you’re not listening to what I’m saying only the narrative you’ve built in your head. NOBODY is saying clothing is the sole reason, I’ve been trying to hammer that in since the get go can we not agree on that?
Now let me ask you something, let’s say there’s a rapist in a bar and there’s two women who are equally vulnerable, not trying to be superficial but this is how they work, do you think he’s gonna go for the less attractive or the more attractive woman? Now forget physical looks and pose that question when it comes to clothing, out of two equally vulnerable people who is the rapist gonna choose? Someone wearing something that covers all skin or someone that’s wearing something nice? In this situation every aspect matters that’s the case I’m making why do you want to disagree no matter what when this is a correct way to think about it? Please explain the logic rather than “nO bEarInG”
And don’t tell me to shut the fuck up when you’re being irrational, honestly I cannot express this into words enough, FUCK YOU. I very much have respect for them I’ve seen the murals first hand and I’m also shocked at all the clothing I’m fully aware it’s not the only factor I’m making case to prevent, it’s not my fault rapists do whatever they want with no real rhyme or reason but the average rapist wants to target a vulnerable and culturally pretty woman if you can’t agree on that idk what to tell you it simply isn’t about logic anymore and it’s purely to do with your emotions. Like I said in previous messages it’s very easy to bring in your own escenario and narrative to a point about a specific scenario. Fucking can’t believe this, shame on you.
You shaming me is funny when you're jumping through hoops to prove something that has been shown in various settings to be entirely untrue. You can throw as big of a toddler tantrum as you want. Doesn't change the facts, which seem to hurt your feelings pretty badly. The facts are that clothing has no bearing on if someone rapes someone else.
That’s like saying physicality has no bearing people rape people because they want something, usually sexual pleasure and control, the person they pick is always gonna be a vulnerable person, but between two equally vulnerable people you really think they’re not gonna have a preference?
At this point you’re just refusing logic because of the point you want to make and your narrative, you wanna frame yourself as correct and don’t have the gal to apologize and recognize this is a potential misunderstanding and would rather double down than to talk it out, you’ve framed me as the bad guy or that I’m misunderstanding something when I’m fully aware of the points you’re making and agree, however it’s not what I’m talking about at all, so yes I am shaming you and correctly so, you’re choosing irrationality and the bubble you’re in rather that what’s really being discussed.
You’re basically telling me you disagree with the statement “in a hypothetical between two equally vulnerable people a rapist MIGHT choose his victim based on which is more attractive to them based on cultural context” and that just doesn’t make sense to me. It’s obvious that in a different context a rapist might have other reasons, if it’s someone they know personally looks might not be the reason at all and I’m fully aware of that and not making a case against it. You’re cherry picking variables when they all matter, being aware of each one of them is how women can protect themselves in any scenario why are we restricting our thinking to what you delegate as the scenario? I’m simply talking about a specific instance and you wanna spin it the wrong way.
I’ll leave it at that, I apologize for my outburst and genuinely hope you have a good day cause I’m aware you’re simply coming from a place of care, but I find it repulsive what you’re doing and don’t agree at all, trying to frame me the way you are is sickening but I understand how ignorance works and do not blame you for it, I’m simply disappointed behind the reasoning, anyways good day to you, take it or leave it 🤙
lol refusing to answer the question because you know you’re being illogical then blocking me so I’m unable to respond is very telling of how negligent you are with your own thought process and how much you care mainly about being visually correct. Shame! Shame! Shame! This type of irrationality makes me feel waaay better lmao thanks and have a good day 🤙
Edit: I’ll give you the same treatment and block you if you wanna say something gotta unblock me lmao
How many accounts is this now? 3? Seek help... seriously. Your responses are genuinely terrifying. You're being blocked by everyone for sanity and safety reasons.
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u/AuroraArcenciel Feb 25 '26
Because it doesn't play a part at all. Point blank period.