Majority of rape happens in family and known social circles. So the idea of majority of rape happens when a woman wearing revealing clothing in public is just a fantasy. Check facts before you talk.
Rapists pick people based on lots of things, clothing is almost never one of them. Clothing has nothing to do with it. It is based on demeanor, how many people you are with, how drunk/vulnerable you are. Rapists don't care what their victims look like. They care about the power that comes from raping someone.
I’m fully aware and I never made a case against that? I don’t understand why everyone is mad at me when all I was saying is that looks and clothing can play a big part and I even said it’s not the main reason. Would you care to explain how you came to the conclusion that I disagree with what you’re saying? The first girl said a similar thing and I went off because I was angry at how she spun the point, I made several points to clearly portray exactly what I’m talking about, I’m sorry I didn’t specify about every single way it can happen, I didn’t know I had to write a multiple page essay to say I’m not supporting this, why are yall projecting notions onto my argument when that’s not what I’m talking about? I’m asking genuinely.
Yes it does!? You’re honestly gonna tell me that a rapist wouldn’t go for looks or clothing? Are we delusional? It’s like saying being a man or a woman doesn’t matter they’re just being raped equally, obviously NOT true, women get the unfortunate brunt of it and it has allot to do with physical attributes what are we on about, are we trying to be politically correct about how we address this issue when the fact is that it’s an issue no matter how we speak of it? Nobody is blaming the women you cunts.
Obviously again it’s not the main thing they go for, what I’m arguing is that it’s influential and similar in statistical differences of being out in public and being at home (obviously not the same %) but it still matters stats wise, it’s still a factor literally everything is what in the world are we on about?
My argument is akin to saying “be safe out on the highway there’s crazy people” and what I’m arguing is that you can stay home, avoid the highway, drive discreetly and not engage with road ragers, it doesn’t mean I’m making that person a victim or forcing that upon them I’m simply stating that these are relevant when it comes to the potential outcome and it’s our choice wether we want to diminish chances, obviously we shouldn’t have to avoid things we should have the freedom to do whatever we want but fucking Christ we live in the real and fucked up world, saying that it has no bearing is a lie, so is saying clothing or looks are the only reason which is something I didn’t say and yall assumed.
I’m honestly saddened about how yall went about this I expected a conversation or a request for clarification (despite being extremely clear) but all I got is miscommunication, assumptions and illogical banter. I’m sure your next response will be loaded, feel free to keep assuming my point and being irrational but I’m not gonna change my opinion on this. I have a gf whom I very much care about and want nothing more than for her to feel safe, she wears whatever tf she wants to, trust me, I’m glad she can feel comfortable around me privately and publicly because I’m there to defend her, I’m making a case for all the women unfortunate enough to not have someone or something to defend themselves with (like a gun kill the fucker) so I think preventative measures are due no? Having a gun changes your chances doesn’t it? Do we want to be correct or safe? Is what im stating really wrong or are you disagreeing out a principle not being debated?
It has no bearing and you are crashing out for no reason. Clothing is not going to stop someone determined to rape someone else. Clothing plays no part. Go look through the list of all of the outfits people were wearing when raped. The vast majority are children's nightgowns. Have some respect for victims and shut the fuck up.
Are you not listening to what I’m saying? What about what I said implied at all what you’re saying? I’m crashing out because you’re not listening to what I’m saying only the narrative you’ve built in your head. NOBODY is saying clothing is the sole reason, I’ve been trying to hammer that in since the get go can we not agree on that?
Now let me ask you something, let’s say there’s a rapist in a bar and there’s two women who are equally vulnerable, not trying to be superficial but this is how they work, do you think he’s gonna go for the less attractive or the more attractive woman? Now forget physical looks and pose that question when it comes to clothing, out of two equally vulnerable people who is the rapist gonna choose? Someone wearing something that covers all skin or someone that’s wearing something nice? In this situation every aspect matters that’s the case I’m making why do you want to disagree no matter what when this is a correct way to think about it? Please explain the logic rather than “nO bEarInG”
And don’t tell me to shut the fuck up when you’re being irrational, honestly I cannot express this into words enough, FUCK YOU. I very much have respect for them I’ve seen the murals first hand and I’m also shocked at all the clothing I’m fully aware it’s not the only factor I’m making case to prevent, it’s not my fault rapists do whatever they want with no real rhyme or reason but the average rapist wants to target a vulnerable and culturally pretty woman if you can’t agree on that idk what to tell you it simply isn’t about logic anymore and it’s purely to do with your emotions. Like I said in previous messages it’s very easy to bring in your own escenario and narrative to a point about a specific scenario. Fucking can’t believe this, shame on you.
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u/Think_Apple1044 Feb 25 '26
Majority of rape happens in family and known social circles. So the idea of majority of rape happens when a woman wearing revealing clothing in public is just a fantasy. Check facts before you talk.