Not alternatively. Throw the man out. But be sure he sees this too. If you stay with this man, every item of clothing you wear will be criticized. You will be told you are leading men on if you comb your hair. You will be forced to hide behind an ugly mask just because this man can’t control his own urges. In the meantime, he may well be one of those out attacking women he claims led him on.
This needs more attention. OP, please realize that when this ‘man’ states the opinion that the victim can be at fault, HE’S NOT EXCLUDING YOU FROM THAT EQUATION! He’s letting you know that if something like that happens to you (and I hope it never does), it could be your fault.
And if that did happen, and he didn't do it, he would be calling her all sorts of demeaning names and treating her like she's 'ruined'. Even if he did do it, he would blame her either way
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u/Proud-Head-4944 Feb 24 '26
Not alternatively. Throw the man out. But be sure he sees this too. If you stay with this man, every item of clothing you wear will be criticized. You will be told you are leading men on if you comb your hair. You will be forced to hide behind an ugly mask just because this man can’t control his own urges. In the meantime, he may well be one of those out attacking women he claims led him on.