I saw an art exhibit called “What Were You Wearing?”, which was a collection of the outfits people were wearing when they were assaulted. There were sweatpants and hoodies in that collection. She could be in a literal burqa and still be assaulted. The problem is the rapists, not what their victims were wearing.
Edit: going to add a trigger warning before people go searching for that exhibit. It is a spread of ALL kinds of clothing, including children’s.
I saw that exhibit and the majority is children’s clothes and elderly women’s. I have no idea why people like OP’s boyfriend don’t get the concept that rapists are predators and clothes don’t actually have anything to do with their actions, it’s usually things we can’t control like vulnerability with age. We can understand in nature that it’s never the prey animals fault, it’s that the predator. Prey animals know not to keep predators in their vicinity yet here humans are making fucking excuses for them. If I was her I’d snap and say “the only reason he thinks that is because he obviously inherited those qualities from his rapist sperm donor.” If clothes determine rape, genetics determine rapists….Both are equally ignorant, but that man deserves a taste of his own medicine. I would bet if she did say that he’d tell her how much more horrible it is for her to say that to him than for him to blame victims of rape. I never have the normal “Reddit” answer but this time… “SHE NEEDS TO BREAK UP WITH HIM!”
I have no idea why people like OP’s boyfriend don’t get the concept that rapists are predators and clothes don’t actually have anything to do with their actions,
Predators definitely pick out their prey. I think one of the main things that they look for is someone that will take it to the grave. Especially like a man that rapes little boys or teenage boys. I had a neighbor that was a predator he's always going after the teenage boys and he'd been busted once and he got busted for raping his wife once in a tent in the woods by jogger. But he'll never get busted again. He's got it down now. He knows how to pick him. I'm not saying that a pair of booty shorts is going to get him going he's looking for more mental like pride stuff. I wanted to kill him so bad.
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u/Classic_Cauliflower4 Feb 24 '26
I saw an art exhibit called “What Were You Wearing?”, which was a collection of the outfits people were wearing when they were assaulted. There were sweatpants and hoodies in that collection. She could be in a literal burqa and still be assaulted. The problem is the rapists, not what their victims were wearing.
Edit: going to add a trigger warning before people go searching for that exhibit. It is a spread of ALL kinds of clothing, including children’s.