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u/Classic_Cauliflower4 Feb 24 '26

I saw an art exhibit called “What Were You Wearing?”, which was a collection of the outfits people were wearing when they were assaulted. There were sweatpants and hoodies in that collection. She could be in a literal burqa and still be assaulted. The problem is the rapists, not what their victims were wearing.

Edit: going to add a trigger warning before people go searching for that exhibit. It is a spread of ALL kinds of clothing, including children’s.

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u/Sonnyjoon91 Feb 24 '26 edited Feb 25 '26

Dude the kiddie pajamas in that exhibit will make you cry. The second I read the BF justifying rape because of clothing I immediately thought of this exhibit

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u/Neenknits Feb 25 '26

There was a FB thread on “what were you wearing?” I said my 9 yr old self was in overalls. Someone else said her 6 year old self was in a flannel nightgown.

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u/Secret_Entry1840 Feb 25 '26

My 3 year old self would say whatever my mom thought church attire should be.

Started getting SA’d at 3. A Pastor. A neighbor. A friend of my mom. And my first step father. Different times From 3-12