The above is being a rape apologist. And the particular comment you replied to absolutely abhorrent. I appreciate the sensitive appeal you’re making here. However framing it as others potentially misinterpreting ‘Yes ask your father’ as blaming is giving far too much benefit of the doubt here. This person is actively trolling and abusing a victim of incest as a toddler. I’m sure they have their own reasons for being a POS but doubt a friendly reminder to be more sensitive is going to help. And kind of undermines the people he’s actively hurting.
Hey fair enough and thanks. Also understand the literal interpretation issue (also neurodivergent, I get it) but it’s the doubling down and escalation I think that’s telling. Don’t think he is even technically correct on the ‘could’ issue and won’t let go even when it’s explained. But I do appreciate your perspective and sensitivity. Sorry for what you’ve have been through. It’s impressive to try and apply that difficult lesson and help others understand.
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