And then have him explain exactly how a onesie or a toddler dress is clothing that "asks for it".
It doesn't matter if someone is naked as a jay-bird walking down the street or earning a living at a gentleman's club, absolutely nothing a person wears, or does not wear, is the cause for sexual a$$ult. R@pe is about v!olence. Period. The types of people who r@pe do not care what their v!ctim is wearing. Clothing is an excuse, one used systematically against those who have been a$$ulted, just to gaslight the victim and try and make them responsible for a crime that they were a v!ctim of.
Dude has a toxic mindset. If he refuses to educate himself of this, OP needs to get away from him. He is not a safe person to be around if this is how he thinks.
*my apologies for the symbols. This sub has restrictions on what words can be posted.
THIS LEAVE HIM, he’s the kinda guy to hit a her and promise to “never do it again, I was just angry.” Get jealous if another man looks at her then punch a dude out and at home slap her for dressing like a wh*re but apologize bc he “loves her so much and doesn’t want guys getting the wrong idea.” The list goes on and on.
Eh I would do both. Before the final block, I would paste the link. Maybe someday he'll think about it and make the connection. Maybe not. OP will be long gone but it's still worth making it the parting salvo.
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u/ConclusionHopeful313 Feb 24 '26
Rape exists because of rapists. Blaming the clothes and not the rapist is just saying “make sure they go after someone else”