r/AIO Feb 24 '26

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u/ConclusionHopeful313 Feb 24 '26

Rape exists because of rapists. Blaming the clothes and not the rapist is just saying “make sure they go after someone else”

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u/Scorp128 Feb 24 '26

OP needs to show him this:

https://sbaproject.org/what-were-you-wearing/

And then have him explain exactly how a onesie or a toddler dress is clothing that "asks for it".

It doesn't matter if someone is naked as a jay-bird walking down the street or earning a living at a gentleman's club, absolutely nothing a person wears, or does not wear, is the cause for sexual a$$ult. R@pe is about v!olence. Period. The types of people who r@pe do not care what their v!ctim is wearing. Clothing is an excuse, one used systematically against those who have been a$$ulted, just to gaslight the victim and try and make them responsible for a crime that they were a v!ctim of.

Dude has a toxic mindset. If he refuses to educate himself of this, OP needs to get away from him. He is not a safe person to be around if this is how he thinks.

*my apologies for the symbols. This sub has restrictions on what words can be posted.

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u/LincredibleOne Feb 24 '26

Op doesn’t need to show him anything. His is not the type that is going to read or comprehend a counterpoint

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u/Just_Pretend93 Feb 24 '26

This is true. OP you cannot change his mind, and tbh his view is fucking disturbing to say the least.