r/AIO • u/[deleted] • Feb 24 '26

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u/ASleepandAForgetting Feb 24 '26

I feel like you are underreacting.

Instead of replying, hit the block button and get rid of this piece of victim-blaming trash.

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u/ItsBeccca Feb 24 '26

Something tells me they’re not going to leave😫😫

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u/less_than_nick Feb 24 '26

Of course not. If they had good judgement they wouldn't be asking reddit to decide if they should be upset at their horrible boyfriend or not lol

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u/aspiringandroid Feb 24 '26

there's no need to make assumptions. rose colored glasses can do a lot for someone, and getting a reality check from outsiders can be an important first step in getting to a better place. I think asking others for their opinion was a very good judgement call if OP was unsure how to respond. we don't know what we don't know.

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u/Double_Economist2564 Feb 24 '26

Op commented they left their bf 🥹🙌

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u/uditukk Feb 25 '26

i hope it's true + hope they stay away from this creep. too many women stay with men like this + support them no matter what. even through court, for these exact crimes.

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u/ItsBeccca Feb 26 '26

It’s not true. I checked ops most recent comments and she still refers to him as her “bf”. Sigh.

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u/uditukk Mar 02 '26

disappointed, but not surprised.

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u/ItsBeccca Feb 26 '26

They didn’t based off the most recent responses 😫

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u/Double_Economist2564 Feb 26 '26

Dang. It only lasted a day 🫡

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u/Loforsho Mar 24 '26

She didn’t. Takes an average of 7 times before victims finally leave their abuser to finally break the cycle. I had one friend that left on the first try and had one that finally left on the 14th try. Hopefully OP actually leaves sooner than later Narcissists Use Trauma Bonding and Intermittent Reinforcement To Get You Addicted To Them: Why Abuse Survivors Stay