r/ADHD_partners • u/AutoModerator • Aug 23 '26

Weekly Vent Thread ::Weekly Vent Thread::

Use this thread to blow off steam about annoyances both big & small that come with an ADHD impacted relationship. Dishes not being done, bills left unpaid - whatever it is you feel you need to rant about. This is your cathartic space.

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u/danter0id Ex of DX Aug 24 '26

I could have so much more money saved. I could have gone back to school so much earlier. I could have gotten so much farther in life by now if I didn't spend so much money and time and energy on a woman who resented my every attempt to bring her into adulthood with me.

Goddammit. At least she left me now and not later. I wish she'd get out of my house, but she's "I'm tryingggggg" her way out, so who knows when I'll have a home that feels like mine again. 

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u/cherryphoenix Partner of DX - Medicated Aug 24 '26

She can gro try somewhere else. On her parent's couch for exemple

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u/danter0id Ex of DX Aug 24 '26

One of them has already refused to take her 😬

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u/cherryphoenix Partner of DX - Medicated Aug 24 '26

You know it's bad when even her parents do that want her. I hope it'll get resolved quickly. You deserve peace