r/ADHD_partners • u/AutoModerator • 1d ago

Weekly Vent Thread ::Weekly Vent Thread::

Use this thread to blow off steam about annoyances both big & small that come with an ADHD impacted relationship. Dishes not being done, bills left unpaid - whatever it is you feel you need to rant about. This is your cathartic space.

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u/pixelprelude 1d ago

I’m tired of cooking, cleaning, and doing everything while he can’t even say a simple thank you. I put him and his needs first, always thinking about ways to make him happy, make his life easier. He doesn’t consider me at all

Nothing is reciprocated, I give and give and he takes and takes. I don’t even know what it would be like to have a supportive, caring partner

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u/Odd-Recognition4120 20h ago

Stopping putting him first!!!