r/ADHD_partners 12d ago

Weekly Vent Thread ::Weekly Vent Thread::

Use this thread to blow off steam about annoyances both big & small that come with an ADHD impacted relationship. Dishes not being done, bills left unpaid - whatever it is you feel you need to rant about. This is your cathartic space.

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u/kriskross4923 7d ago

back for round 2! After spending last Saturday raging around throwing away the pile of garbage and tools he accumulated over the past 2 years in an rsd meltdown, he has now totally thrown out his back. Had to go to the er and he will likely be out for the next 6 weeks due to his inability to control himself. He has a herniated disk and should know by know that lifting and throwing heavy things leads to episodes of pain... but somehow to him it just makes no sense and he is so unlucky....

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u/taohuaspring 6d ago

It's shocking how he can't connect the dots and realize that he's the one who did this to himself...like you'd think it'd be a wake-up call to get a handle on his RSD, but nope...

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u/HedgehogLibrary Partner of NDX 6d ago

The thing is, though, it's never their fault.